Well I suppose that there are people out there, ex-friends, with whom I wish I could make peace. It’s not for lack of me trying either. They simply aren’t interested. It’s not that I want to have them in my life again or that I miss their presence because it became very clear that we aren’t meant to be part of each other’s worlds as we are just too different but I suppose I would like to make peace with them simply because knowing someone is out there with ill feelings towards me just doesn’t sit well with me. I’m a caring person who tries to be good to others and I never mean to cause hurt feelings. But, if the other party is unwilling to make the attempt, there’s little that I can do about it. So, while I haven’t made peace with them, I have made peace with myself and the situation. Other than that, I don’t think there’s anything else weighing on me that I feel the need to rectify and find peace with….and that in itself is a very comforting feeling. To see others’ wishes, go here: http://jamieridlerstudios.ca/wishcasting-wednesday-peace
Make peace with the fact that those that continue to carry ill feelings towards you are hurting themselves. You didn’t ask them to carry those feelings. Forgive yourself for your part in whatever caused those ill feelings and move on. When we let someone take up space in our minds ‘rent free’ then that is our bad.
When I realized that my step-dad neither knew or cared how angry I was at him and the only one who was being hurt by my feelings was me (this is what I mean by ‘rent free’)… it was easy to evict him.
As you wish for yourself, so I also wish for you.
As you wish for your self so I too wish for you as well:)
As you wish for yourself, so I wish for you also.